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Hi all, My WH moved home and insists he is there for the kids, not me, so I need to put up with his moods, hate and filthy lies while I lovingly try to plan A and establish boundaries to protect my heart and my feelings. If anyone has any tips please for reverse babble, I could really use your help. If you want some background on who I'm playing this game with, go to WH moved home Thank you for your time.
BS 32 (1st marriage), WH 38 (2nd marriage), DD 3, DS 1
Married Aug 2002, EA/PA 2005, NC mid 2005
EA Jun 2008, Plan A, 1 Aug 2008, WH moved out 14 Sep 08, D-Day 14 Sep 08, Moved home 2 Nov 08, moved out 30 Nov 08
Plan B, 2 Dec 08, broken 5, 11, 15 & 17 Dec 08
Current Status: Contact for visitation, children and finances.
Embarking on a new plan to Let go and Let God and to not settle for less than I deserve!
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Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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Hi all, My WH moved home and insists he is there for the kids, not me, so I need to put up with his moods, hate and filthy lies while I lovingly try to plan A and establish boundaries to protect my heart and my feelings. If anyone has any tips please for reverse babble, I could really use your help. If you want some background on who I'm playing this game with, go to WH moved home Thank you for your time. If this marriage is supposed to be in RECOVERY - I say: DO NOT REVERSE BABBLE WHILE IN RECOVERYYou need marriage counseling, not reverse babble.
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DO NOT REVERSE BABBLE WHILE IN RECOVERY
You need marriage counseling, not reverse babble. Pep, I don't believe this M is in recovery at all. I believe WH is still in an active A.
Last edited by tst; 11/24/08 01:59 PM. Reason: quote fix
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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Definitely agree with tst
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Hi everyone, definately still an active EA at the minimum and not committed to recovery at all. Packed his bags last night to leave and is being completely demanding, irrational and blaming me for everything including wars before I was born. I had a major breakdown in the car this morning with him. He wouldn't let up and I lost it and screamed, cried and punched the car. My hand is sore, I feel terrbile and I am back feeling like I should just give him what he wants, the money and a ticket out of the M. But, I don't think that's enough. I think he wants the M, just with me as a little mouse with no boundaries. Sorry for the confusion, I wrongly thought that too when he came home 
BS 32 (1st marriage), WH 38 (2nd marriage), DD 3, DS 1
Married Aug 2002, EA/PA 2005, NC mid 2005
EA Jun 2008, Plan A, 1 Aug 2008, WH moved out 14 Sep 08, D-Day 14 Sep 08, Moved home 2 Nov 08, moved out 30 Nov 08
Plan B, 2 Dec 08, broken 5, 11, 15 & 17 Dec 08
Current Status: Contact for visitation, children and finances.
Embarking on a new plan to Let go and Let God and to not settle for less than I deserve!
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