I read that this person is Bi-Polar. Unfortunantly, this changes things from the normal MB plan. Get the kids away from her ASAP!!! She is, and will continue to be violant. And wile it is due to BP,...it WILL only get WORSE!!

People that trully have Bi-Polar do not percive reality the same as you or I. She trully belives this is all your fault, she will never be able to realise what she has done, that she was wrong...and most importantly, she is incapeable of being sorry for it.

And it WILL get WORSE!!

Read this.
http://forums.healthcentral.com/discussion/bipolar/forums/a/tpc/f/2651085/m/75710961

Even if she gets help and gets on Lithium or another med, it will only help for a few years, and eventualy the BP will start progressing again.

There is a 99% chance, that even with theropy and meds you will eventualy be back at this point.

Save your self, save your children, please.

Last week B hit me again in front of my 11 year old and while she held our 2 year old in her arms. She was also upset that I found out that she went to visit Marty again just last week, and get this. She once again took our 2 year old daughter with her to visit this man at the lake inside his camper. How do I know this?? Well, I found pics on her e-mail of Marty, her, and our daughter inside this camper. THIS MAN WAS HOLDING MY DAUGHTER with B. They were posing like they were one happy family. I just cant believe how stupid this woman is. She knew how angry I became when I saw her bringing our daughter to see this man, so what does she do???? SHE DOES IT AGAIN. She brings our daughter to the lake to see him and TAKE PICTURES WITH HIM. This was the last straw. I called 911 that night, they did another report. The next morning I went to our domestic crisis center and they assisted me in filing for a TPO. It was filed. Judge looked it over with all my evidence and granted me full custody of our daughter until the hearing in mid Dec. She was served this morning and myself, daughter and son left the home. I was surprised but not surprised when she Boo-Hoo'd but never shed a tear.

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My prayers and sympothys go out to you. I'm sure you must be convinced by now, that the only way out of this nightmare that represents your M, is with a bulldog attorney.

Your WW is ill and is very toxic. If you allow her to be near your children, she will spread her poison for generations to come.

This is your chance to save those babies from years of confusion and mental anguise about what is ritht and wrong. I would have a talk with the 11 year old and explain how boyfriends and girlfriends are not allowed in a M. He will understand more than you realize and you will have passed on a very important lesson to him. Don't allow him to remain confused.

Divorce this woman ASAP.

All Blessings,
Jerry

I am so confused. Who is doing what to whom?

My original thread: http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubb...in=153547&Number=2142935#Post2142935


Thank you Jerry. The deputies came last Friday, served her with the TPO and the D papers. After seeing all my evidence, judge granted me full temporary custody until the hearing in mid Dec. There is a no contact order in effect. Kids and myself are at my sisters house and are doing fine. Domestic crisis center is providing free counseling to my 11 year old since he has been a witness to the domestic violence. I talked to her ex husband the other day and found out that she was jailed for domestic violence against him when they were married. She definately has a lot to answer for when the time comes. With all the hard evidence I have against her it would be in her best interest to give me what I want rather than expose her in court. I have 2 attorneys representing me, one handling the divorce and a second "Bulldog" as Jerry said handling the custody issue. She is a wonderful atty and came highly recommended. Expensive though but I dont mind at all. Wish me luck and please pray for me and my children. I will keep you all informed of what goes on and thank you to everyone for all the wonderful posts.

Used.

Sounds like you've got things under control legally but I implore you to take care of those children, emotionally.

Do you have someone that you can share thanksgiving with emotionally? How bout a sibling or an parent? Those kids of yours need to feel love. How will you handle that?

Teach them love and it's reward. Seems like it's all in your hands now, dont blow it! I know you won't.

All Blessings,
Jerry

We have a great thanksgiving planned. I live with my sister, brother in law and their great kids. Both my parents live 10 minutes away. We are all close. Wifes family, (sisters and mother) support me 120%. I'm close with them too. B is pretty much out there on her own. Her family commends me on the fact I have been looking out for the children first before anyone elses needs. Theres definately a lot of love hovering around these children.


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