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#2164058 11/25/08 07:01 PM
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cant get ahold of any lawyer atm...

am telling W today that want a separation and given her response in the past I know she is going to exlode with blame and accusations at me, followed by intense weekping/nervous breakdown...

question is, in the past I have submitted to her breakdowns everytime because it makes me so weeeak,,, and I want to avoid this.

for those who no my story and know I have 3 kids ,,,

would it be wise for me to inform her and then head to a hotel for the night?

it would happen after the kdis are in bed and I do not beleive she is a threat to them,

by the way, she told her mother earlier today that she "cant kick me out yet, because she has work appointments over the next several days and needs me to watch the kids"


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BH(me) 32
WW 31
Dday - EA/email fling june 2006
NC letter June 06
Dday 2-3-4 july-Nov 06
Dday 5 oct 08
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nevermid, silly question.

excuse me while I grow some &^%$s.


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BH(me) 32
WW 31
Dday - EA/email fling june 2006
NC letter June 06
Dday 2-3-4 july-Nov 06
Dday 5 oct 08

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