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SN recently found out about MN's multiple affairs 2 weeks ago. and we would like to make it work but we have a problem.
MN is stationed 17 hours away. Can not be together because of court order on SN daughter and MN's stepdaughter. MN had 2 of the affairs after getting orders to report in July. Found out they were just meaningless.
Need advice and a plan to reconcile or if possible with the distance. How do I know it won't happen again? MN only has 2 weeks leave at Christmas and it will be first in person encounter. Only be able to be a family a couple times a year. We do have web cam and phone communication. Is it enough? He is stationed there till 2010.
Me SN 34
Him MN 34
Married 3 years
2 Kids - 1 and 6
Affair 1- 10/2006
Affair 2 7/08
Affair 3 8/08
Affairs with people found online. I just found out 2 wks ago.
Are not living together because he is in military and has to go where they order him. I can't leave St. because of court order not allowing daughter to leave. So 17 hrs distance between states.
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