I have kept up plan A, albeit my own somewhat inaccurate version for 3 months.

My WH is living at home, but bags have been packed for 3 days and he hasn't mentioned leaving again.

I am confused about what I need to do.

Could you please read my thread (or some of the last pages of it)and give me your advice as a FWH or FWW?

I could really use your fog / withdrawal / inaction experience and your interpretation of his behaviour and my actions.

I am trying to save my marriage and toying with plan B, but don't know if it's the right thing to do.

Please help.

Help for advice on plan A/B, WH moved home


BS 32 (1st marriage), WH 38 (2nd marriage), DD 3, DS 1
Married Aug 2002, EA/PA 2005, NC mid 2005
EA Jun 2008, Plan A, 1 Aug 2008, WH moved out 14 Sep 08, D-Day 14 Sep 08, Moved home 2 Nov 08, moved out 30 Nov 08
Plan B, 2 Dec 08, broken 5, 11, 15 & 17 Dec 08
Current Status: Contact for visitation, children and finances.
Embarking on a new plan to Let go and Let God and to not settle for less than I deserve!