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Can anyone point me to some sample exposures letters for friends and family (not workplace). I've done quite a few searches through the forums with Google search (since local one is broken), but have come up dry.
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People have asked for sample plan B letters. Never have seen anyone requesting this.
My question is why not do this in person or over the phone? Most people do it this way. Just tell the truth.
What proof do you have?
Dependeding on the proof you have it may be best to provide copies.
Important not to warn but just do it. Also a must to tell WW's parents and siblings. Then OMW or GF if he has one of those instead. If the OM is young you can expose the OM's parents.
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Yeah i guess a letter is wrong. i do plan on telling in person or phone. i guess i mean a script, etc. i know people say it will never be perfect or come out exactly right and to just do it. i just want to make sure that i come off in the right light.
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"It pains me to tell you that WS is having an A with OP. I am committed to repairing and rebuilding our marriage, and I would appreciate whatever support you can give WS and myself at this time."
When speaking to people you respect (i.e. your parents, WS' parents, priest) you can also ask if they have any advice.
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