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Well, WH moved out again after being home only three weeks. Since he is not willing to go NC with OW, I made the decision to start plan B. Last night, I changed all the locks just because I don't think he should be able to come in whenever he pleases - a form of cake eating IMO. So, this morning he came by to put his one car in the garage and take the other to work, which I had agreed to, and discovered the locks changed. He did ring the bell and I let him in. He kissed the kids and asked if he could call or text me later. I told him that unless it had to do with the kids, no. His response was that he guessed he deserved that. After he left, I composed my plan B letter and e-mailed it to him. So, there it is. Wish me luck and any advice is greatly appreciated.
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You can do this! It will be hard to be firm, but your marriage needs you to be strong. Good luck!
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When you say he moved out AGAIN, how many times is AGAIN? Just curious. My WH is like the song -- he changes his mind like a girl changes clothes.
M 25 yrs, 3 teens
Dday 12/07
5ish False Recoveries (all in 2008)
12/08 WH moves in w/OW, her kids
Plan B/D/FU -- depending on the day
He files 1/09; D final 12/2012
"I'm moving on"
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yes you can do this, its determental to YOU to do this!
Good luck! were all here
Me-49 and staying there, course AARP sent me my card ugh
H-49
DD and SIL
GS the light of my life! 1 and a half, full of you know what
DS med school
always working on me
•The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated. Ghandi
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