WifE had an affair of the heart through the course of the summer with an out of town client (she sells industrial / comercial supplies). It ended the right way I would say...she came clean with me when OM was planning a trip to city we live in and was beginning to pressure her to "find them a motel".

She let him know that she could not go through with the sleazy final scene and broke off contact...he is no longer her client but does deal with one of her co-workers. He hasn't tried to contact her and was pretty arrogant when she ended things...I had called his home and let his wife know the score (he'd told my wife that he was divorced but still living in family home...sheesh).

Anyway, what bothers me is that despite NC my wife is still where she was when the EA occurred...is still accessable to him by phone and / or Email. Today she is going to receive a job offer from another company in another product...she knows how I feel about things but she has been making progress at her current employ since the bullsh--t ended...would I be wrong to dig in?

We have been married 18 years and this was her first and only indiscretion...and it happened at a time when our marriage was all but over due to my indifference toward her...I basically had it coming but I was able to win her back by ceasing all bad habits simultaneously and proving to her that I truly do love her. Whaddya think?

'bout what?

Sry...guess it was a little unclear...should I insist she take the new job with the new company in a different industry thus extricating herself from the scene of the crime so to speak?

She needs to work somewhere that NC is assured. She will be angry, but oh well.....

Have you read up on the EN's and identified her top ones?