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How come I'm still sad...
I'm dating a pretty terrific guy...
Still I'm sad...
I've done a good job I think of letting go, moving on, looking for a new life full of love...
They dance on my marriage's ashes...
How can they celebrate?
Envy?... Revenge?... How ugly I am with these thoughts...
God please give me peace from my pain...
Help me move to a renewed sense of life with joy and pleasure...

lamplight



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if ure that sad, why are u dating?


FBH, 39
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Originally Posted by LWP36
How come I'm still sad...
I'm dating a pretty terrific guy...
Still I'm sad...
I've done a good job I think of letting go, moving on, looking for a new life full of love...
They dance on my marriage's ashes...
How can they celebrate?
Envy?... Revenge?... How ugly I am with these thoughts...
God please give me peace from my pain...
Help me move to a renewed sense of life with joy and pleasure...

lamplight

you're sad because you are human. It is just a twist of the knife.

Trust me...one day soon you will be so very happy he is just a speck in the rear view mirror of your life.

It is not your job to handle revenge or to drive the karma bus.

Just find and embrace happiness.

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hug

It could happen to any of us. My D is fast approaching and I could be posting that same thing one day. It hurts. It sucks.


BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years

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