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Hey Vets.... Why?
#2177209 12/20/08 12:10 AM
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Hello, Veterans.

Why do you do this? Why do you take the time to come here day in and day out to help us BSs and WWs, to help us do and see what's best? I would be lost without you, but you don't know me and yet you help me (and so many others) anyway. So what do you get out of it? I will be forever grateful, regardless of what happens in my life. You have no idea what a lifeline you've been. I'm only curious... Why do you do it? Please pass along what it means to you so I may learn and maybe do the same someday.

Merry Christmas and God bless.

Me (FWW): 45
BH: 46
M: 11/94
PA: 2/08 (4 mos)
Confessed: 10/08
DS10
DD8
Re: Hey Vets.... Why?
Looking4 #2177233 12/20/08 01:35 AM
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Hi Looking4!

As luck would have it, there is a thread regarding just what you are asking currently running! Here is the link~~~> The long term impact of MB. Why are you still here?

Also, I'd just like to take this opportunity to say that I sure hope that you'll be one of those that sticks around to post long term...I've noticed many of your posts that I thought were OUTSTANDING...One in particular I thought was so good that I called Mr. W at work to read it to him! smile I find your posts to be both helpful and humble...As I told Mr. W, "Looking4 is a FWW to watch - I think she is gonna do great things there!". I'm very glad that you are here...((((Looking4))))

Mrs. W

FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
Re: Hey Vets.... Why?
Looking4 #2177240 12/20/08 02:08 AM
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L4,

I do it because others did it for me when I arrived. I didn't post much but was one of those guys that read everybody else's thread and learned from what they were told by those that preceded me.

So now I am paying my debt to these forums forward.

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