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Well, my W met with the OM to put closure to them. I believe everything went well, and I feel sad. I don't know what to do now. I took the day off work to spend it with her and take some stress from the kids. I feel so much pain from her and I want to take it all away. How can I help? I don't know. I do know that the 8 yrs. I spent not giving her any emotional support cannot be changed, but how do I make the next 30yrs unbelievable? Seeing her so sad makes me broken inside. All I know is I have never loved her more than what I do now. Hon, I am sorry it took something like this to make me see, my heart is eternally sorry. All i can do know is try to move forward. I hope you will come with me as we take this step to make our marriage even stronger. I love you.<P>C.
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live the four rules of love every minute of every day, Harley talks about them if you have not read them,there is a book of his I have that is called the four gifts of love that he sent me even thought it is or newlyweds it will work for anyone given a fresh chance.<BR>you and your wife are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you all the happiness in the world.<BR>Lesa<P>------------------<BR>"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and<BR> lean not unto thine own understanding." -Proverbs 3:5<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P> lms20ish@jobe.net
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She will need a lot of understanding and support as she goes thru withdrawal for OM. It is hard to watch your spouse miss the other person...to put your own hurt feelings aside and be a friend when they are down.<BR>Harley says that the betrayer cannot really accept a lot of love units while they are in withdrawal, but it is still important to be in Plan A (meet needs, no LB). Good luck<BR>Kathi
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