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My WW trained me to never pee standing up. You're kidding, right? Nope, serious. That seat never goes up in our house. I don't know if I can break the habit and do it the other way now!!! Nice for future spouse though. Well that's a first for me. Never heard of such a thing before. Had I known something like that was even possible, I would have had my WH trained to do that as well. 
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Sounds like maybe she didn't want to marry a man. 
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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I almost became a woman for her, it would seem. I'll have to work on getting my manliness back now!
I am a 32 yr old betrayed husband.
My wayward wife is 31.
Married 3.5 years.
Found out about affair when it started around 10/1/08.
Affair started as emotional via internet, then went physical.
Wife moved out on 12/27/08.
I filed for legal separation to get visitation with my son--wife countered with big D but now says she is in no hurry to finalize the D??
Currently in Plan A.
3 yr-old son.
7 yr-old step son.
11 yr-old step daughter.
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Yes, please practice standing all day today. Trust me, another woman would think that was, well, odd.
Rest assured though, that it is probably like riding a bike - it will come back quickly.
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Bump for fun! 
Me-39 H-38/Married 19years/DD18 & DS10
Dday EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08
Moved in w/Sea Hag 08/01/08
Read SAA Sept 08 Plan A 10/03/08 thru 11/15/08
Plan B 11/15/08-currently
01/18/09 Plan B crack w/phone call restating PBL
01/31/09 Planned brief contact
02/15/09 Delivery of Planned 2nd PBL
Filed for D Dec 2009 Recovering well!
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4) Not have to be blamed for her unhappiness anymore. getting "fired" from certain jobs is fantastic!
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Yes, please practice standing all day today. Trust me, another woman would think that was, well, odd.
Rest assured though, that it is probably like riding a bike - it will come back quickly. If needs be I can post the instructions for my new Shewee. It starts with "First practise in the shower..."
Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday 
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