Originally Posted by angie1718
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The fact that you are back because the OM dumped you does not help his situation either.

Wait a minute, this isn't true. What I said is that he "assumed" that because of that stupid e-mail.

After OM broke everything up,I was ABSOLUTELY sure that I wasn't going back to my H, I even told my sister this,I was even looking for rentals cuz I was going to move out.

I think there is a logic disconnect there. Seems to me that if the OM hadn't dumped you, the affair didn't end of your own free will, and i'm sure that is what your H sees. So anything about your decision to reconcile is downstream from that date.

I'm sure he feels like second choice, like a lot of us BS.