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Can someone please explain to me how the timelines are different for a BH and his WW? What are the main differences? I've seen this written a lot but can't find any details about it...
Me: 25 BS
Wife: 25 WS, EA for 3 mos, EA+PA for 8 months, currently NC, but not committed to M
Married 4 years, no kids
DDay: October 31, 2008 (More Trick than Treat)
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Can someone please explain to me how the timelines are different for a BH and his WW? What are the main differences? I've seen this written a lot but can't find any details about it... I don't understand what you mean. Can you clarify?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Yes I will try to clarify, sorry for the confusion. In this post, LovingAnyway said this: Stick with Plan A and bringing reality. Change your own habits now...see, then you'll already be doing that together...back as a team...not because you're on the same page, same goal, same timeline (you're not)...because you're both doing it. I just wasn't sure what that meant. I've seen it a lot of different places around here.
Last edited by IP705; 01/05/09 05:14 PM.
Me: 25 BS
Wife: 25 WS, EA for 3 mos, EA+PA for 8 months, currently NC, but not committed to M
Married 4 years, no kids
DDay: October 31, 2008 (More Trick than Treat)
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Are you asking if there is a different rate of recovery for a WS verus a BS??
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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