I browsing threads this morning and I came across this from MelodyLane.
Dr. Harley is a clinical psychologist with 35 years experience saving marriages and nowhere does he advise people to kick out their spouse if they don't immediately end their affair. It is a foolish move if you have any intention of saving your marriage. And it is known that the risk of divorce is much greater when separated.
My history, PRE_SAA-Dday April 23, 2008, he told family that Thursday night, packed up and left. He came to visit on Sunday, where he came unglued and broke up with OW and moved back in. Within 3 days he was back with her. I knew it. He was an angry angry person again.
He was home for 2 weeks to when I had to kick him out. I believe he wanted me to do this so he would not have to say he walked out on his family. I was trying to wait it out but when he screamed at my kids and came in and yelled at me and called DD17 a snotty biatch. He was not like this pre-A. The kids wanted him to go to the park. He was too busy, and crazy really.
That was the final straw. He tied my hands and I told him to get the blankety blank out and that no one screams at my kids. Ultimately he got what he wanted as he told me at dday that even tho he had not told me they were already looking for apartments to start their new life!?!?!

Anyways, can't help but thinking are my chances lowered. I wish I could have kept him there but I think with how angry he was for that 2 weeks it was impossible.
I mean I was thinking now that he has lived with the Sea Hag for 6 months the fantasy is surely gone.
So I say all this in reference to the quote above.
Are there any marital recoveries when the WS has moved out, or moved out and lived with OW/OM. I'm wondering if its possible.