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my husband is in an EA i have been laid off for a year we are facing financial hardships. He lost his job 6 weeks ago. He has told me that if i dont have a job by end of this week, he is either moving OW in to help with bills or selling house to her parents. He told me i can stay and deal or leave. He says he just wants help with the bills. What do i do? I have been trying to save us since august. I have been everywhere to find a job(against drs orders, ive had 4 knee surgeries last year and not released back to work yet) and ca/t find anything. Help what do i do?
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I would tell him to go ahead and move in with the OW. That is the easiest way to make the affair end.
Have you done a good Plan A including exposure?
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he is either moving OW in to help with bills or selling house to her parents B, I think he is threatening to move OW in the marital home WITH them?!?!
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Moving the OW in with wife and kids? YIKES!!!!
Does this guy drink or is he on drugs?
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BOY, BELIEVER, YOU WERE RIGHT! I MOVED OUT A WEEK AGO SATURDAY MORNING. HE MOVED HER IN SATURDAY NIGHT. BY SUNDAY NOON, HE WAS CALLING ME SAYING WHAT A MISTAKE HE MADE AND HOW SORRY HE WAS AND IF I WOULD COME BACK. I TOLD HIM THERE WOULD BE NO COMING BACK UNLESS THERE WAS ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT WITH HER EVER AGAIN. HE HAS PROMISED THAT. NOW WE WAIT AND SEE?
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