So I guess we've been recovered from an EA for 4 years. I put in a bid on Ebay 4 days ago for some 50's vintage ornaments that we had when I was a child. I have watched, and for 3 (THREE) days no one has shown an interest. So, bedtime comes, and I, not wanting to trounce on my FWH's EN's of my retiring with him, go to the bedroom for the usual back rub and niceties that he is so accustomed to. I reckon I do this so as not to ever give him a reason in the future. Thought I had a handle on the bidding, lost it by $.50. Fifty cents!! I am sooo LIVID. He wouldn't have said a word if he knew i was in a bidding war, I just mentioned that I should check my account, and left to discover my undoing. I just feel that he comes first, as I do with him. Why am I so resenting our bedtime ritual this evening? He feels so bad about the auction, and now I feel bad cause he was delayed in going to sleep.....I know this is petty!!!!! someone gonna tell me to grow up? GF

Marriages don't fail, people do. (And I don't recall who said it)