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#21933 10/19/99 08:06 AM
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My H just informed me that the OW and her daughter have moved out of his place. I hope he got a good taste of reality while they were there. Of course my H has not said anything about us. When I told him I was going out Friday night, he said (in the most sincere and sweet voice) "Think of me". I really want to see this as a good thing. What do you think?<P>------------------<BR>To thy own self be true.<BR>*Viki<P>

#21934 10/19/99 08:25 AM
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Hi there<BR>It sound promising to me, don't hold you breath though, what I mean is dissapointment is not nice, so don't set yourself up to be hurt just hold thumbs !!<P>Jenny<BR>South Africa<P>------------------<BR>Where have all the cowboys gone ?<BR>Paula Cole<P><BR>

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Hi Viki,<BR>The Ow moving out sounds great to me...unfortunately that may or may not have anything to do with your relationship to him. Keep your expectations low and go on living your life, including plans without the H.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Lor<BR>"Do not get tired of doing what is right, for after awhile you will reap a harvest of blessings if you do not get discouraged and give up. (Gal 6:9)<P>

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Thank you so much for the advice. I will do my best to keep my hopes down. I just want to see this as a good sign. I guess time will tell.

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Hi Viki-<P>It is good to hear from you. I have been thinking about you.<P>This does sound like good news, but I must agree with the others not to get your hopes up.<P>You need to stay focused on yourself and making yourself the best you can be. I think too many times, we look at the little things and get our expectations way up.<P>I know everything will work our for you and your son. I pray that your H can't his head straight and does the right thing.<P>Hang in there. I'm praying for you.<P>Cheryl

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Hi Cheryl,<BR>It is so good to hear from you. I have been thinking about you lately. I hope things are going well. I am going to try and keep my head out of the clouds. I really want things to work out.

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Pondj - Every little thing is good reason to hope. I'll join the crowd, though, keep your expectations reasonable. Keep doing what you're doing and see what happens. <P>Nice to have a little "up" on this ride, though, isn't it?<P>Lori

#21940 10/19/99 03:01 PM
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Lori,<BR>Isn't that the truth. I'll take any and every little sign I can get. Anything to help keep me going. Thanks for the advice. I'm going to do my best.


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