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Re: WW determined to move into apartment
dawn012365 #2200007 01/26/09 01:12 PM
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And ask your attorney if you are responsible if she is busted for drug possession or if the car is implicated in some other crime. There are very sound reasons to not have your name on a vehicle that is not in your possession and it doesn't matter if your WW was ever into anything like that before because you don't know her now.
Re: WW determined to move into apartment
HeartInPain #2200339 01/26/09 08:46 PM
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Heart, my brother, I noticed something in your thread that caused me to wince.

""That will really hurt her bad though."" faint sigh

You did not want to take the car away, because that would "really hurt her bad though"....

When you are fighting for your married life and your children, there IS NO ROOM FOR ANY COMPASSION OR EMPATHY for your adulterous wife!!

You must view her and approach her as an alien being inhabiting your former wife's body. You must be devious and ruthless in your dealings with her to MAKE HER SLEAZY ADULTEROUS AFFAIR AS DIFFICULT AS HUMANLY POSSIBLE to continue.

DO NOT WORRY ABOUT HER FEELINGS!!! She most certainly is not concerned one whit about yours.

kirk

CORDUROY PILLOWS ARE MAKING HEADLINES!!
Re: WW determined to move into apartment
krusht #2200378 01/26/09 10:35 PM
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Kirk! Thank you, my friend, for drawing my attention to that. Obviously I still have too much love in my heart for this woman! 21 years of solid, unwavering love is difficult to put aside. Never wanted to ever see her hurt, and that feeling unfortunately continues, in spite of the stinking crap that she's dragged me and my beautiful kids into.

Thanks, again!

Me: 42
WW: 41
Married: 16 years
Known each other: 21 years
S12 D10.5
A Started: Nov 8, 2008
First Discovery: Dec 26th ("Just a Friend" excuse)
Big D-day: Jan 10th (Recorded evidence of full-blown A)
WW Moved out: Feb 1st, 2009.
Plan B started: Feb 13th, 2009.
D Papers served on me by WW: Feb 17th, 2009.
Plan B currently blown, A continues!
WW moved back into home: Feb 23rd, 2009.
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