Hi. I am new to this and am very glad to see there is so much support here. I have been married 15 years to a man from central america. We have 2 young children and I am having a hard time getting rid of these nagging feelings that he is living 2 separate lives. I keep having nightmares and read into a lot of things he says. I alwys feel he is lying and really isn't who I thought he was. About a yr. and a half ago he was arrested for solicting. I was to say the least floored! I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO BEGIN. hE WAS ALWYS PREACHING ABOUT HOW AGAINST PEOPLE WHO CHEATED WERE. He has alwyas put me down regarding my past ( before we were married) about who I had slept with. How he couldn't get past it. What a bunch of crap! I feel like he has been grooming me this whole time. Ater he got cought with the hooker the 1st time he lsot his job 3 months later for inappropriate conversation with a customer. In this conversation he told this girl(19) that his wife was cheating on hima nd that I said he had a small d***. He also told her that if he would have know about my past before we were married he never would have married me. He knew everything about me, just typical mistakes growning up and being a teenager and partying. He has been on his own since he was 13 due to moms death and father abusing and abandoment. We are going to church and trying to save our marriage but he could never give me any type of reason he would say such things and lie about me, I am so hurt by all the things he's said. This is the person I am supposed to grow old with and count on and be my best friend. I feel like I am waiting for something else to happen. I do love him but who do I love? Does he exsist? please anyone give me your thought and opinions. thanks so much for listening. :RollieEyes:

Hate to say it, but it may be a cultural thing. I've got lots of friends from Mexico, and most of the men are dogs, but always go home to their wives. I only know two who are faithful.

But YIKES, the wife better not cheat.