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#2199001 01/24/09 01:27 PM
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XH is apparantly marrying the OW this weekend. One of my "friends" decided to inform another friend and asked her what my reaction was to this news. (I think she thought I knew)

Anyway, my friend told her she doubted I cared, then added, "But, I think that is pretty disgusting. I mean, he's gonna marry his cousin?"

XH introduced OW as his cousin for the first while of the affair so I did not find out. He ran into my uncle at a hockey game and said he was there with his cousin, which got back to me quickly. Was funny cause XH has only three cousins, and they are all under ten. LOL

Anyway, wagers on how long this will last? We can make a pool and winner takes it all. :P


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>tongue in cheek<

send them your old wedding video as a wedding gift

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Bahahahahaha!!! I should. Send them one of the wedding gifts WE received. (with a note of course saying who sent it and why they chose it for us) LOL


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Originally Posted by Ms_Manners
Bahahahahaha!!! I should. Send them one of the wedding gifts WE received. (with a note of course saying who sent it and why they chose it for us) LOL

That works - and, of course, sign it like this:

From cousin (your name) rotflmao

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From XH's First cousin hurray


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Originally Posted by Ms_Manners
From XH's First cousin hurray

PERFECT

and don't put your real name

just "FIRST COUSIN"

bwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa rotflmao

and kiss

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This is really a sick group naughty, but.... hurray

Go for it.

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Originally Posted by Just Learning
This is really a sick group naughty, but.... hurray

Go for it.

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I don't see a downside - for Ms Manners, that is.

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rotflmao

You could give OW a framed copy of "You're Special" as well...or a turkey baster.

Last edited by black_raven; 01/24/09 03:23 PM. Reason: can I buy an "e"?

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LOL!

You peeps are funny!

I wonder if XH can work in a new line to the vow...

"Till death do us part; OR until someone uglier than you comes along" laugh

OW is friggin ugly.

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She's fugly too? rotflmao


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Originally Posted by black_raven
She's fugly too? rotflmao

You betcha. :P


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Do you WH take Cousin Fugly to be your sloppy second cousin? :gobblegobble:


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Originally Posted by black_raven
Do you WH take Cousin Fugly to be your sloppy second cousin? :gobblegobble:
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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Originally Posted by black_raven
Do you WH take Cousin Fugly to be your sloppy second cousin? :gobblegobble:
faint

Should I administer smelling salts or turn up the volume on the bango music? grin


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LOL!

Is it sick and twisted on my part to have found this news to be wonderful today?

My feelings as to why? Because now she can know what it feels like to have a lying, manipulating, POS for a husband.

(wonder how long till he ruins her credit?)


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(wonder how long till he ruins her credit?)

rotflmao

Yours too, huh?

BTDT!!!

LMAO!!

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When you re-gift one of your wedding gifts, put in a bunch of your original wedding cards, too. Sign your name on them, and put in a note that says you are recycling the cards, and when their marriage is done the "Second Cousin" should recycle them too on his next OW, in the interest of the planet, "no use wasting perfectly good wedding cards".


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Originally Posted by schoolbus
When you re-gift one of your wedding gifts, put in a bunch of your original wedding cards, too. Sign your name on them, and put in a note that says you are recycling the cards, and when their marriage is done the "Second Cousin" should recycle them too on his next OW, in the interest of the planet, "no use wasting perfectly good wedding cards".


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Unfortunately, I had a very theraputic session of ripping up and throwing out the cards about a year ago. I came across them as I was doing some spring cleaning, and they had an unfortunate "accident"

I especially enjoyed ripping up the one from his parents, informing him of how lovely I am and how lucky they were to have me join their family.

(I found the card too that was from the Christmas his mom gave me her grandmothers wedding ring, because she loved me and wanted me to always be a part of her family. That is, until OW came along *rolleyes* The ring is still mine though hehe)


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Originally Posted by Ms_Manners
LOL!

Is it sick and twisted on my part to have found this news to be wonderful today?

When you see what a joke their M is you can't help but laugh. wink


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