Guess What?
My wife has become more attentive to me. She has become more thoughtful and affectionate. She wasn't a very affectionate person being a sexual abuse survivor. She goes to church a lot and that has helped her with the sexual abuse, but she was guarded of showing too much affection. Plan A has helped some of that come down. She is being more open and more concerned for me.
I was only doing it for about 3 months. I would buy her a single rose for no reaso
On cold days I would start the car for her before she went to work so it would be warm when she got in.
I opened the door for her whenever we went anywhere.
If she asked me to get something for her I did it right away
We talked more
I would watch her chick flix with her( oh boy)
And she started showing me more attention just this week.
I know that there was no infidelity involved, but I can see how it coulsd sway a wayward spouse.
I still have problems doing it if there was and i would be intiating the stick of Plan A immediately if it were so.

Thanks guys. Plan A can and does work