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Re: I Just Found Out
Ms_Manners #2199255 01/24/09 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Ms_Manners
OW is friggin ugly.

Send him a hefty bag to put over her head.

BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
Re: I Just Found Out
ChaiLover #2199352 01/25/09 01:23 AM
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rotflmao at all of this!!! rotflmao
Re: I Just Found Out
ChaiLover #2199364 01/25/09 02:17 AM
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Hefty bag IS necessary.

At least he waited almost a month for the ink to dry on the divorce papers.

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Re: I Just Found Out
Ms_Manners #2199401 01/25/09 07:14 AM
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I was rotflmao at all of this!

Originally Posted by Ms_Manners
OW is friggin ugly.

They ALL are...inside, outside, or both. In my FWH's case, the skank was fugly inside & out.

Me(bw/fww) 39
recovering with amazing fwh/bh 36
DS 7
DS 4

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EA Oct '07 - 7/2/08 (d-day)
NC 7/4/08

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NC 3/17/10
Re: I Just Found Out
broken_soul #2199493 01/25/09 11:48 AM
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Mrs Manners, before I forget, happy birthday for tomorrow.

Fag today.

But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats
Re: I Just Found Out
black_raven #2199606 01/25/09 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted by black_raven
Do you WH take Cousin Fugly to be your sloppy second cousin? :gobblegobble:
faint

I KNOW you didn't say that out loud in public right here in the forums.

You DID??

Well in that case I'm sure glad I got to hear it because I'm dying laughing. BR, you are SO bad!

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Re: I Just Found Out
Ms_Manners #2199613 01/25/09 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Ms_Manners
Hefty bag IS necessary.

At least he waited almost a month for the ink to dry on the divorce papers.

Yeah, I expect mine to wait until the day after the month-long waiting period after OWH's trial.

It will be a formality, only, I think. I know OWH doesn't want to believe it but I think they already HAD a ceremony...they just weren't able to have a LEGAL ceremony.

When they went to Vegas. (And OWH is still rant2 about that. Me? BIIIG deal! Who cares? Why waste time and brain space thinking about it?)

Charlotte
Re: I Just Found Out
Dancing_Machine #2199691 01/25/09 08:22 PM
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IMO there is nothing upsetting about it. I have barely given XH a thought in the past 20 months, so why would I care?

I was kinda surprised that "friend" thought I would be devastated by it.

Today is my birthday and I have much to be thankful for. Cake is the big one! wink Family and friends have made my day nothing short of amazing! smile

Now, if I could just hurry up and recover from this stupid surgery. rant2

FBS - 28

Status: Divorced (thankfully)
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