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Any preference? Does it matter? Would handwritten appear more personal? Intimate? Please share your thoughts, especially if you did it one way or the other, and what your WS's response was in your case.

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WW Moved out: Feb 1st, 2009.
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I would write a Plan B letter in hand written style. The criteria is WS must be able to read it easily.

I would avoid any flowery style that is a distraction to the contents.

My style would involve a couple of re-examines before it got sent. Therefore preliminary post would be on PC and the final would be handwritten.


But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats

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