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I am planing on moving back in with my spouse who kicked me out and doesn't want me back in(she is considering working on marriage, but is not extremely active in that). I don't want this to backfire on me, and hope that it can help our marriage although she will not like it at first. For details check out my post in the Gen II forum. Please pray I can do this with a clear head, and not let emotions get in the way and ruin the progress I have made with our relationship. Thank you, God bless.

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Dear Lord, I pray that you give Zambo the courage and strength to fight this evil assault and the wisdom to stop enabling the attacker. Please help him be calm in his emotions and bold in his heart to stand up to the evil that has descended on his family.

"I can do all things through Christ which strengthen me" Philippians 4:13

Lord, please bless this man and his family.

In Jesus name I pray, AMEN.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Well, Ive done it. And now more prayer is needed for my wife to come out of her hazy deceptions and see the logic and wisdom. She is trying to say that I am trying to manipulate and control by doing this. The funny thing is that she is really trying to manipulate me otherwise. Pray that her self deception would be removed and that she would decide to follow the Word. She left this morning without a word to me with her bible in hand.

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6 days since I let her know Im staying here for good, and 10 days since I've actually been staying at my home. More prayers are needed, since I need to have wise actions and words in all of this, and she needs to come to God and let go of the deceptions, lies, unforgiveness, and bitterness. We are going to see the counselor tomorrow to talk about our situation more.

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Need more prayer, the more I stand up against attacks the stronger satan attacks us!!!! I need wisdom, my wife needs out of her haze and deception. The wolf needs to be taken out.

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once again, still requesting prayer, she got an order of protection and I am no longer in my home. Now legal battles are on the horizon. Thank you

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Just want to get rid of that smiley face.

she is trying to keep my daughter from me. I refuse to settle for every other weekend.

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I have a hearing tomorrow for the OOP. Prayers for that would be appreciated.

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The hearing got moved, and now it is tomorrow, Thursday morning at 10:45. Prayers that God's will be done. This order makes things hard for the family and is totally unnecessary. Thank you.

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thanks to anyone who has prayed. The order of protection got dropped. Praise God!!!! Please pray for my wife that she will come to her senses. Our next hearing is on the 10th regarding the divorce. I don't want this to happen.

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Lord, give your strength and confidence to Zambo in all circumstances. Enable his heart that you be glorified.


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I've been gone for a while, thanks for praying for me. More prayer for my wife would be appreciated. She is still ignoring God's word and Spirit, and seeking a divorce. Things have smoothed over a bit and with tons of prayer her spirit has softened and she is feeling convicted about the situation, but she is quite the stubborn person set on her path even though I have completely gotten rid of most of the reasons she originally started this over a year ago. I am working on other areas, and through the Holy Spirit I have been able to slowly become more sanctified. She wants to continue to "Follow" God without obeying what he says regarding marriage, which isn't really following at all. She doesn't seem to see this contradiction. While she admits that divorce is wrong she says that God will forgive her, conveniently forgetting that God forgives us if we repent of our sins. Please pray that the Spirit would continue to plead with her and convict her deeply as well as give her the desire to obey him and a desire for a family that seeks God together. Thank you


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