If you would please be so kind - post to trying2live about your MB Plan B coaching with Steve.

I've been trying to remember exactly what Steve told you about opening the door every now & then to give the wayward a light back home ---- something , dang, I can't remember exactly.

In T2L's case, her WH was 100% convinced T2L would wait indefinitely for him to return. We're working to lower his level of certainty to 75% or lower.

This is a delicate balance - creating an opportunity for WH to return while at the same time infusing anxiety in the WH brain >>> realizing BW will not wait forever.

As I recall, your H became anxious when you sold the house.

Thanks.

LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A

LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders