A BS does not need GPS.

The BS can just cower in fear as their WS repeatedly refuses to admit to and affair, or to end it, or breaks NC.

The BS can just sit back and be a door mat and believe all the lies their WS is feeding them.

What evidence? You don't need no stinkin' evidence. Especially when you are not willing to take action. Without evidence the BS can keep their head buried in the sand.

Hell, why make one's lawyer's job easier by providing evidence. After all why is one paying their lawyer all that money?

Believe me it feels "stalkerish" but I would never have done this before she decided that her "needs" outweighed the needs of the family.

I am tired of the lies and I wanted proof of where she was. For example, she told me that she would be home around 2:00pm this afternoon. Well at 2:15 she was still at his house so I decided to text her to find out when she would be home. Within 5 minutes she leaves his house and 5 minutes later she calls to say that she was on her way home. She tried and give me some song and dance about her phone being off and she didn't see my text. Ha!Ha!Ha! I guess it was just a coincidence that she left his house soon after my text message.

I am not really disagreeing that one shouldn't do it.

Just seems odd to me, so in my situation would you GPS her car? Even when she is not living with me?

If the OM lived in this town I would have a GPS in her car, GPS-track her blackberry...hell, probably drug her and install GPS in my WWs head!

Luckily the OM is thousands of miles away. Thank GOD. But that damn blackberry still sends and receives texts, and calls...but I'm close to tracking that damn thing also.

Love the keylogger and access to her e-mail account. But she ended up giving me the password a week ago. Don't get me wrong, I'm still keylogging

You aren't stalking, you are protecting your marriage!

I remember sticking my head in the sand, telling myself "there is no way she's having an affair." Stupid!

I will watch her closely from now until eternity, if we make it that far

Think about this...you GPS track her car and can see when she's at the OMs place. You just happen to call her while she is at OMs place to chit-chat, or ask a question about the kiddos, etc.

So how would I get it into her car if were not living together?

@ss crack of dawn one morning. I'm talking 4:00 AM when she has the kiddos and you don't have to worry about anyone watching them.

This assumes she parks it outside. And you might want to make sure there are no security cameras watching.

You could call her at work and say, "hey, i picked up some groceries/goods/stuff for the kiddos...i'll put in your trunk while you are at work" Ta-daaaaa.

It may be stalkerish but I would do it in a heartbeat. My WH has continued to contact the OW and believes that since I can "see" his contact, all is well. The final straw is when he went out and didn't come home until the next morning. He states that he came back to me but has not worked/discussed/done anything to regain my trust. In fact, he is projecting all his issues onto me now. He chooses to constantly visit a friend and that puts him very close to OW, only next town away. He has refused to give me contact info for this friend, because he doesn't want to involve in "our" problems.
I saw product advertised here recently but couldn't do much since he was sitting in same room. He doesn't claim to be tech savvy but why give him reason to raise his guard when he's being stupid?? (I told him to go to his friend-the one that he stayed with while his EA became PA-so he is out of house again) It's very hard to not be angry and espouse LBs when we have a young child and he's not willing to work on repairing our marriage.

We have a TrackStick from Brickhouse Security that is USB and downloads the data to a computer, then draws the route on a Google Map, but it does not track in real time. It stores the data for up to a month of driving, and any day or time can be downloaded separately. It was pretty pricey, but has a magnetic mount that can hide it on a car. I put it on my car voluntarily and am responsible for insuring it is on and has good batteries. They can be mounted under the dash with a usb cord that can be pulled out later to download the data to a laptop. We combine this device with Chaperone-Child tracking using our cellphones. SSS is the Chaperone and I am the child. She can dial up with her phone and see my position in real time on a map on the screen of her phone or on the web app. This service costs $10 per month from Verizon and seems to be a good combination for us. But if the situation is real time tracking undetected or unknown by the tracker, that real-time solution from Brickhouse soiunds like the best idea. $50 per month is a lot of bucks, though. Our system works pretty well, but with the TrackStick, I have to remember to remove it from the car and put it in my pocket when I get out to hike the trails with my dogs.

The problem with the TrackStick is that the metal of the car can hide it from satellites, and data points can be lost if it is in your jacket in the car while driving. It has to be either on the outside of the car with a magnetic mount or under the plastic of the dashboard, where it can be "seen" from a satellite.

Hi,

this blackberry one sounds good...where did you get that? And, is it hard to get the software on it, or, how do you actually get it going on the blackberry?

My h's one is his work one, and he uses it all the time...and also his computer at work forwards his emails to it...

Hope I can get this and able to get it on his blackberry when he is asleep or in shower..hmm...how long does it take to get it on there?

thanks much for any info,

gineva

Here is a link to the ultimate tracking. I did not buy it because you do need access to your WS phone for a total of about 15 minutes but he moved out before I found out about this.

You can hear all calls, messages, track him everything. On Utube there are instructions on installing if you have any problems.

http://www.phone-spy.net/?gclid=COalvfzzr5YCFRKIxwodvRdbLA

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