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Re: I might be the OM!!!!!!
TheRoad #2204388 02/02/09 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted by TheRoad
Exposure is not for just the BS.

I have read here for years. There have been countless BS's that said friends, family, co workers knew but never told me, I only wish that they had.

ericch isn't a friend, family or co-worker. He has no way to judge the impact of his actions.

Many OMs SEEK to blow up the WW's marriage. Isn't that what he could be doing here?
Re: I might be the OM!!!!!!
MrWondering #2204408 02/02/09 11:20 AM
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This could be a temporary condition if you keep your head on straight and avoid these unhealthy relationships until you've properly healed or, it WILL become protracted or even permanent, if you jump the shark and give into the temptation of allowing a woman to meet your emotional needs when you are really really really needy. Too easy to fall in lust/love with the WRONG person. IMO, you've got to build up a life on your own PRIOR to having anything of consequence to really share with someone new.

So cool it.

Mr. Wondering



Completely agree Mr. W. Hence my:

We also probably have that bit of elusiveness abt us in that we know we aren't going to just jump into a new relationship without thinking first.


Was just trying to inject a bit of levity on an otherwise serious topic. Your point well taken.

Of course when you go 15 months with no SF, it does get challenging...but no, you are correct.
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