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Of course WS care about their children.
They just care about the genitals of the OP more than their kids.
Is that so wrong?
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Let's see, my XW told me that I was causing her to do this to SS.
It was ALL MY FAULT!
She even told him that I abandoned them and never wanted to speak to him again.
She then threatens me to have me locked up if I ever try to contact him and to show she's serious has the police visit OMW by telling them she threatened her.
I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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It isn't enough that our children's world is torn apart, then they are pushed into spending time with OM and his 3 children. This all happens within months of the separation so they can start blending their families....what in the world is with these WS's??
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Also, in regards to our children and OM, why does my WW/XW feel this need to push the OM onto my children? I am trying to understand her need to replace me with OM as our children's father? Just recently our D6 was sick(virus) and I wasn't aware(not my weekend) and OM and his kids called to ask how my D6 was feeling while I wasn't told about her illness until the next day. My WW/XW shows her lack of respect for me as their father while making the OM look like the caring one.
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I think they care about their children, they just don't believe they are responsible for what is happening.
It is the difference between saying to someone, "I'm sorry I am doing this to you" vs. "I'm sorry this is happening to you." Many WS's "care" but do not feel they can do anything about it (and further, do not feel that they caused it).
To them, the circumstances did not arrive because of their choice, but rather because of fate, karma, someone else's actions, etc.
Me 43 BH
MT 43 WW
Married 20 years, No Kids, 2 Difficult Cats
D-day July, 2005
4.5 False Recoveries
Me - recovered
The M - recovered
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