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hey, I'm looking for a post on "the wayward mind" that someone referenced, maybe by sn Lala?
Want to understand the fog ...
M - 12yrs
BS = me
DS8, DS6
EA D-day = 01/25/09
PA D-Day = 02/12/09
Plan A 01/27/09 -
Plan A with earnest exposure 02/12/29
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GWN, Here's a link to the "Inside The Wayward Mind" post. It was written by my wonderful W Resonance. It is very inciteful, but as far as understanding the wayward mind, there is no making sense of the irrational. Inside The Wayward Mind Want2Stay
BS-me 36 FWW-34 DS-7 & DS-3 PA - 7/06-8/06 EA - 6/06-1/07 D-Day: wife confessed 2-17-07, suspected 8-02-06 Broke NC: 2-19-07, 3-24-07, 5/07 My StoryMy Wife's Story --------------------- Healing one day at a time.....
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thanks W2S - that helped immeasurably.
did you expose?
how did that go over?
M - 12yrs
BS = me
DS8, DS6
EA D-day = 01/25/09
PA D-Day = 02/12/09
Plan A 01/27/09 -
Plan A with earnest exposure 02/12/29
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Great,
It is useful to stick to one thread. I would suggest that you stick to your second thread that you started under General Questions II.
You still seem to be asking 'to expose or not to expose' I hope you don't go that route of being hesitant and timid in this war. You have to be strong and confident in your exposure actions. Do you have your list of exposure targets? When are you going to expose? Mel gave you a lot of good advise in that second thread you started.
Lake
BW-53
FWH-54
H had EA 3 weeks 06
Married 1977
N C 4-10-06
3 DSs
In Recovery
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