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I just don't like double standards. SMB is always quick to play the BS but never the WS

Wow that's about as callous as a person could get.

SMB IS the BS.

What transpired in her life at that point was a DIRECT result of the pain and devastation that was caused by TST's A. Is that an excuse, no. But in reality there is only so much a person can bear without breaking down some boundaries and trying to find some kind of relief.

SMB was never foggy, just desperate. She never pardonned herself for it and she even came clean with this forum shortly thereafter. I suspect if anyone asked her about it she would discuss the WHYS and HOWS. But to most it is quite obvious why and how she did what she did.

We are all human. We have all suffered. Can't imagine why anyone here would need to be so cruel.


BW(me)
DDay EA 4/05
DDay PA 6/05
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