Thanks Mo. I've gone round and round in my head on this to make sure I wasn't just falling for the first girl to come along. She really wasn't the first. I think I just got really lucky on timing. I figured I'd had enough bad luck over the previous year and a half, I was due for some good luck. I feel like the guy who walks into the casino and hits the jackpot on his first pull.

You know, I do not buy into the whole "rebound" R thing IF you have grown from your last R, you are not in a hurry to replace the person, and if you are compatible.

Case in point- my brother and his W. You could not find a better matched couple (besides my parents ) He was fresh out of a D, was M'd for I think 6 or 7 years. He met his now wife I think a few months after it was all said and done with his first W. He got engaged to his current W a few months after dating. And they are still going strong over 11 years later.

When people would tell him he should slow down, he did not need to get M'd right away, he would just tell them that HE was not rushing, it was going along the way a great R SHOULD. She is a perfect match for him, and he is perfect for her.

So, SB, it sounds as though you are in the RIGHT place at the RIGHT time. And how awesome is THAT????