RB, ML, Agree and disagree,

Agree, Fear is the enemy, decisive action (with a plan) is the best course. Disrespect should not be tolerated.

Disagree, that this is the most signifcant difference between those who recover the marriage and those who dont. The WW is the X factor. The marriages which recover around here are the ones where the WW gets on board relativley quickly.

I dont think there are a whole lot of BS's here who have missed the opportunity to recover their marriages, I think there are a lot of BSs who dont realize there marriages cannot be recovered because their WW is not willing to do what it takes.

My new theory on marriage building. Follow plan A/B for 6 months, then move on. Move on together or move on alone, but most of all just move on!

ps RB, glad things are going well for you, your familiy and your baby!

Last edited by betterorworse; 02/06/09 07:50 PM.