I hear tell of Plan FU, and it's very obvious what it's meant to convey. But I'd like to know--when is a Plan FU appropriate?

Sometimes I think a good Plan FU might make some WS's go quiet, which is what these poor BS's need.

My curiosity is killing me.

On a side note I think Pom and Pariah would be contenders for the "#1 I Deserve To Do Plan FU on WW" spot.

I Plan FU'd about a month after I filed. She had been gone for about 3 months, hadn't paid a nickel of anything, and barged in the house demanding to do laundry because that was her house and washing machine too. She was still completely fogged out and chock full of selfish entitlement. Now she's doing laundry with MY water, electricity, detergent. Watching MY TV and cable. Eating out of MY pantry that I put food in and just being a complete and total wayward selfish entitled basket case.

Well

I let her have it and then some.

at first she laughed at me and called me a loser (i didn't stop)

then she stopped and hung her head (i didn't stop)

then she cried (i didn't stop)

this went on for quite awhile. I told her every thing that I held back for the last 6 months.

Now I was done with the Marriage before I did this, so I could care less about LBs or DJs.

I didn't plan on it and I never had any intentions on doing it, but she barged in all full of herself and I just lost it.

Was it right - I have no idea

did it do any good - I honestly have to say in my case it did. She was different after that and it did more for personal recovery than anything else.

Do I recommend it - NO

Maybe when you're done and you don't have any kids!