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#2213320 02/13/09 11:00 PM
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A Person of Character

By Michael Josephson of Character Counts (525.2)

Let's face it: It's not easy to become a person of
character. It takes a good heart, but it also requires
wisdom to know right from wrong and the discipline to
do right even when it's costly, inconvenient, or
difficult.

Becoming a person of character is a lifelong quest to
be better.

A person of character values honesty and integrity and
pays whatever price is needed to be worthy of trust,
earning the pride of family and friends, and
self-respect.

A person of character plays fair even when others
don't and values no achievement unless it was attained
with honor.

A person of character has strong convictions, yet
avoids self-righteousness.

A person of character believes in the inherent dignity
of all people and treats everyone with respect, even
those whose ideas and ideologies evoke strong
disagreement.

A person of character deals with criticism
constructively and is self-confident enough to take
good advice, to admit and learn from mistakes, to feel
and express genuine remorse, and to apologize
graciously.

A person of character knows what's important,
sacrifices now for later, is in control of attitudes
and actions, overcomes negative impulses, and makes
the best of every situation.

A person of character willingly faces fears and
tackles unpleasant tasks.

A person of character is consistently and
self-consciously kind and empathetic, giving
generously without concern for reward.

A person of character feels and expresses gratitude
freely and frequently.

A person of character is not defeated by failure or
dissuaded by disappointment.

A person of character seeks true happiness in living a
life of purpose and meaning, placing a higher value on
significance than success.


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Lil, I'm 54. For 18 months of those 54 years I wasn't a person of character. For the rest of the time I was that person. Does that make sense? Aphelion is very big on us FWS (or permanent WS as he likes to think of us) always being people of no character.

I never thought in a million years that I would betray my principles, my values and my husband.

All those things describe me as I was before I was 48 and had an A. They describe me now.

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I am a FBW, and I would say I still need to work on a couple of those things.

They were a good reminder for me.


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They are a wonderful list of what we should all strive for.

Rob meets every one of those points and always has.


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