catperson:
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[b]My stepmother wanted me to divorce my H (he was the only person who ever stood up to her); I ignored her. So twice, she contacted Children's Services and claimed he was abusing her - at age 3 and age 5. The second time, I knew it was her and talked to the CPS lady about her. She urged me to sue her and to file for no contact. I didn't because I didn't want my daughter to lose her only grandfather. (which happened anyway after I finally told him the truth about her after he accused ME of being a bad mother!) Stepmother wanted my H to be charged with unspeakable things and was willing for him to go to prison just so she could have him out of the family.
Anyway, things went so awry that I had to tell D18's school that my stepmother AND my father were no longer allowed to pick D18 up. It was a very painful part in my life, especially since no one else in our family supported us. My own brother practically begged me to apologize to them and ask forgiveness.
But the one thing I cared more about than my family was my daughter. There was no way in h&ll I would let her alone with them again knowing my stepmother was spiteful enough to disappear with my daughter.
Just sayin' that people you think you know...aren't always.end quote
Just sayin' girl. I never understood why you are so passionate about infidelity, but I understood when I saw this on tully's thread.
You know, you are totally an advocate of these kids that are caught in the middle of all of this carp! I can't tell you how much damage my kids suffered, life changing stuff.
(however, they are all doing pretty good now, thank you GOD!!!)
I do totally appreciate and understand why you are here, you have suffered as a child and adult first hand about what infidelity is to a child, and as a parent trying to do the best for your kids in spite of it all.
You are WORTHY
, and deserve a voice on this forum.
Thank you for being here.
Love in Christ,
Miss M
