Thanks for the replies. You both are correct MIM - I have told her no more cross examining DS and Yes I am going through with the polygraph.

Trix, I am reporting what had transpired not saying that I believe it or not. At this point her creditability is almost zero.

Last night after I got home, she immediately came to me and said "I know how your mind works and you are thinking that me cancelling the appointmen is a sign of guilt". Teary eyed - she state that she would take myu appointment scheduled for 1/09/07.

I was in the process of grabbing some coat hangers to do some ironing when her other GF called (she is watching her DD), she made the comment to me "I'll try not to get to close to her husband". Well the chit hit the fan and I am so sorry, but I LB all over the place!! I was packing to leave when she got in the vehicle to leave thereby preventing me from leaving.

She then returned and stated that she could not afford the house payments or sending the kids to parochial school so she would therefore move out, get a job and get her own apartment. I stated that that would be a good idea. She ask me if I wanted her to sleep downstairs and I told her yes.

About an hour later, I went downstairs and told her MB recommended that H/W not sleep apart even when arguing. She could return to the room but it was her decision.

She did come back up to the room.

So here is where I am....