So for those who have read my earlier post Fog Speak, here's an update. last nite my WH called to tell me that his mistress was going to file a restraining order for riding by her house and exposing affair to her family. Also said she was filing theft charges for something missing from her purse which happened to be in my husbands truck, a truck I half own!
I admit I was nervous but this morning my WH sent me a text that said she wasn't going to do anything & he really put himself out there for me. He even said he told her to be the bigger person and move on. What? She's sleeping with a married man and she's the bigger person???? Well he came by the house while I was away and signed my divorce agreement and even had the nerve to write this note to me, "You know maybe you can remember or ponder this question for your next relationship: Where would we be right now if you hadn't had to check my phone or even if you had just had a little trust and believed what I told you about the situation"
Suddenly I felt this enormous amount of rage and I sent him a text that said, "U stop blaming me for this. U cheated and lied to me for YEARS! You know where we'd be now, same as always only u would be seeing Brandi and I'd be in the dark. I didn't do a thing wrong and u remember that! Didn't u tell someone that u wouldn't change, u were going to F**K like a rabbit until you couldn't? DO NOT EVER place this on me. Own up like a man!"
That is the last thing I will ever send him. He will never ever make me feel guilty for this. He needs to feel guilt and shame for what he did. I will not accept fault in this at all.
My goodness why did I put up with him. He's a crazy idiot & OW will be crying one day because this will happen to her. I'd like to say I'd be happy but I probably won't even care then!
Appt with lawyer on Thursday at 4:30. Thank goodness!!!!
