Hi i have been married for 8 years i've know her for 9 1/2 our relationship has always been up and downs, my wife is bipolar, she's had several affairs in the past at least 3 and the last one she had i asked her to move out, we also have a 4 yr old daughter which she doesn't really contact much, since she moved she started seeing the guy and i was ok with it, i was trying to move on with my life until recently she wrote me an e-mail telling me that she couldn't love anyone the way she loves me specially him, and that when she's with him she thinks of me even when with him that she was begging me for a second chance, I did but when she broke it off with the bf he ran his truck into a tree on purpose and landed in the er. she went to help him out and i told her maybe you should stay with him it's better and she said why is it better, then i asked her are you making the right choice and she said yes i am, but ever since the hospital she no longer wants to pursue us again she says she was only doing that for the sake of our daughter the thing is it brought me back to square 1 feeling alone and all the feelings that come with the break up what should i do any advice????

Are you better off with her or without her?

Decide if you want a divorce?

Read up on plan A and plan B.

what's plan A and plan B i don't understand what it is.... can you explain

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ok after a long week of silence, she sent me a text on her birthday to remind me it about it, then on friday i sent an e-mail to my previous wife who lives away to schedule a visit with my son, soon thereafter she look at my mail and found out about the e-mail i sent, this made her very mad and sad to the point of calling me several times until i finally answer then she told me that i never loved her that why was i being so nice to my ex now and that it made her feel really bad inside after that happened i change the password on my account but when she found out she again attacked me with phone call after phone call saying that if i'm going to see her she's going to come with me so i finally told her, we need to talk and she agreed monday we're going to talk or at least she said we are but i don't know if it'd be a good idea to talk @ my house or go out to talk...