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#2220082 02/25/09 09:31 AM
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Does anyone else ever get stuck trying to believe details? Over the last month the WW has done a pretty good job of trying to lay everything out there in terms of timelines and details that I have been asking for. It hurts knowing that she did it because she didn't feel loved, but I can see how she would have felt that way. I was a jerk.

My problem is that I get hung up on her saying that she never wanted the actual PA to happen. And when it did start, she said it hurt, was dry, didn't enjoy it, wanted it stop, etc. As a male, I have a tough time understanding these things. Is this more WS fog or is it entirely possible and I am convincing myself otherwise?


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PA 2/08/08-2/28/08. D-Day 4/21/08.
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Waywards lie. Maybe she's right?


But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats

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