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Re: Need Advice: Gearing Up to Tell DH I've Cheated
DNU1 #2221757 02/27/09 05:03 PM
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Well done BBB,
you go for it!!!
Re: Need Advice: Gearing Up to Tell DH I've Cheated
bbb461011 #2221772 02/27/09 05:18 PM
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You and your family will be in my prayers this weekend as well.

You obviously have a good idea what it is that you need to do. Hard, hard work, but well worth it.

All the best,
Nicki

Learning. Slowly. \:\)
Re: Need Advice: Gearing Up to Tell DH I've Cheated
Nicchi #2221801 02/27/09 06:03 PM
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Be strong!!! You know what to do, right! Everyone is pulling for you!
You can do it! Wow, just thought of an Adam Sandler moving.

Seriously....Hang in there!!!
Re: Need Advice: Gearing Up to Tell DH I've Cheated
mr_fallenhero #2221825 02/27/09 06:58 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement, everyone, I need it!

H is home, I'm feeding my family, then the bomb will be dropped. I've never realized how important my family is to me until this moment in time. This is by far the most heart-wrenching and humiliating thing I've ever done...and I haven't even done it yet! (But the clock is on its count down.)

I'm sure I'll be back in the forums soon begging for more advice and letting you all know how things went; maybe DH will be with me. I'm so thankful to each of you that has cared enough to post and help me out. You guys are life savers...and that isn't just something nice that I'm saying--it's the TRUTH!!!

Thank you all,

BBB
Re: Need Advice: Gearing Up to Tell DH I've Cheated
bbb461011 #2221828 02/27/09 07:07 PM
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You can do this, BBB. There is another person on MB here who is also planning on telling her husband this weekend.

I have a pretty good idea what you're thinking right now and how scared you likely are.

Know that you are not alone. My prayers are with you.

Me (FWW): 45
BH: 46
M: 11/94
PA: 2/08 (4 mos)
Confessed: 10/08
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