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As of today, one can't read there without becoming a member.

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Now what are we gonna do for laughs?


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I know, Mark. I usually check it a couple times a week, just to keep up.

Lately, one after another has been dumped by their affair partner. So maybe they are getting paranoid.

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B,

I would think living that kind of life-style would make you paranoid anyway.

Couldn't happen to a nicer bunch...

Now if I could just find a TOM board to harass...

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Or better yet, to p155 them off--

Pretend to be an OW whose MM left their wife for you.

I've not done this nor do I intend to.

Their site makes for good reading though when I can't find my Narnia books. (Yes, I still read those.)


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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As messed up as it is, I must thank TOW. It was because they pretty much booted me off, that I found MB. (Goodness forbid that I asked how to handle my PA with my H after the PA had ended. Apparently spouse talk is frowned upon over there.) So, while I hate to give 'em credit, it was TOW's insensitivity that helped me discover this place -- which has saved my sanity and hopefully helped save my M.


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But, didn't you come to Marriage Builders in spite of them, rather than because of them? What would have happened if you had never gone there? I am not following the line of thinking that gives them credit for your decision to come here.


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As of today, one can't read there without becoming a member.


So much for being proud that they are OW. \:D


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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.

We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
--------Eleanor Roosevelt

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