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Joined: Mar 2009
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I am so glad I found this site. I felt like such a loser and a chump when the A happened. I've been reading through some of the material but probably the best thing is reading the posts of some of the other members here. I guess I just don't feel alone anymore, and it's easy to talk about things here without feeling like I'm being judged.
This brings me to my point, I've found it so helpful and enlightening that I want to have my wife start reading over some things here as well. I don't know if this will help or hurt though. She'll obviously see my posts, and I don't care but I don't know how she'll feel me discussing this publicly. I'm certainly not going to try to keep it a secret though.
I just want to find something that will help, not make my situation worse.
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Welcome to MB
So what's up? I assume it's adultery-related since you're posting in an infidelity forum?
As far as discussing things publicly, this is an anonymous board. No one knows who you are. A few MB have become friends IRL, but that's totally up to the individual.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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I just want to find something that will help, not make my situation worse. What is your situation, SIT? Can you give us a thumbnail sketch?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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