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why do i feel this way
#2233184 03/24/09 11:42 AM
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hello i found out 6 months ago my husband has been cheating on me.we have been in counseling had to stop cause our insurance ran out.my husband is in the army. he meet her in one of the shopets on post .im so angry and hurt. this women is also married with kids. i have the need to meet her and confront her.we are going back into counseling in april my husband is back on post. he said he hasnt seen her. i have to go on meds now because im such a wreak been having panick attacks.i just want to know why do i want to meet this women if you can call her that.
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I am new here and empathize with u. Except in my case I know the OM. But you want ask how could u? Destroy two families with this indescretion. It is normal. And from what I read here may be part of your healing. My prayers are with U.

Me 34y/o BS
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"There is no higher praise to a man then 'He was a good man'"
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Originally Posted by tinamarie
hello i found out 6 months ago my husband has been cheating on me.we have been in counseling had to stop cause our insurance ran out.my husband is in the army. he meet her in one of the shopets on post .im so angry and hurt. this women is also married with kids. i have the need to meet her and confront her.we are going back into counseling in april my husband is back on post. he said he hasnt seen her. i have to go on meds now because im such a wreak been having panick attacks.i just want to know why do i want to meet this women if you can call her that.

Tina,
Is your husband being open and honest with you about the affair or is he telling you its over and to stop talking about it? If he is trying to sweep it under the rug, you have about a 99% chance of knowing the affair is still ongoing.

Have you exposed the affair to the OW's betrayed husband? You need to find him and contact him so he can make sure that no contact is maintained on her end. He will be an ally in ensuring the affair stays broken up.

ex-WW had 2 PAs in first 2 years. Buh-bye.
Divorce finalized: 1/28/09
Now just living and loving again.

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