Anyone here ever found the other persons myspace or facebook page? The other person in my case has a myspace page I stopped going there for along time, but then decided since kids visitation may be a possibility then i better take a look. All I can say is if you are headed to court it may help your case. Cause in my case, I cannot believe my luck--or how dumb they are to put it out for the world o see.

I had access to her bebo and her facebook.

For reasons I dont get, she locked me out of bebo but I can still see her facebook. Yet trusted MB FB friends that I have asked cant get into her FB page.
Very weird.

And yes, your right, while che cleaned up FB (we think she was reading on MB and saw some comments a bunch of us made) her bebo has some :MrEEk: stuff that i was going to use

ok this may sound dumb but what is bebo?

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Yep...found OWs facebook with pictures of she and WH together at the beach, at Vegas, at the Ritz Carlton.

Also pictures of her kids with their names. My state is "no fault" so it doesn't matter that he's an adulterer. However, I did make a copy in case he complains that he has no $ yet is able to afford taking the bimbo out of town every other weekend (to coincide with the weekends her kids are with Daddy #2).

I may or may not need it in court, but I'm prepared in case she gets a clue and deletes the pictures.

And it makes me wonder of the nerve of this POSOW. Nothing like flaunting their relationship for all the world to see.

HE is not divorced yet. HE has teenagers who look at Facebook. SHE has pictures of her kids so her kids' friends are probably looking at the page and wondering who the old guy is with their friend's mom.

Is this so high school or what?????

NZ is a no fault country.

I was able to get the A put into the seperation agreement by having the lawyer put "Mrs Doggie does not seek to seperate permantly from Mr Doggie, only protect herslef at this time, and is willing to reconcil once Mr Doggie stops all contact with his affair partner"

You just have to go outside the box :crosseyedcrazy:

What did you find, sadmother?

my wife has a myspace page too, recently i found out she has a hi5 and a classmates profile too, she hasnt been on her hi5 in awhile, last time i checked. but she recently updated her classmates one and she told me that shes not there to meet people yet she kept the part in her interests section as meeting new people, does anyone else find that odd? also weve started going to therapy because we both have cheated on each other so we have trust issues and insecurities, the therapist gave us a good idea that we agreed on, no friends of the opposite sex, at least until we can resolve the trust and insecurity. for a while neither of us got rid of friends, then during a fight my wife deleted most of the guys off her myspace, then deleted all the chicks but herself and my cousin from mine, i dont have a problem with it because i know we should live up to that promise, one of the guys on my wifes page supposedly is gay so feeling bad i apologized to him and said he could readd her, days went by and he didnt, i told my wife about it and so she readded him, along with two other guys. now she wont delete those guys plus the other ones from her list, even though i did and i dont mind, she claims im trying to control her and thats why she is fighting me with deleting them. i think she is fighting for them, which isnt helping the trust and insecurity i feel, am i just paranoid or do i have a valid point when i say she needs to delete these guys? ps sorry this is so long, i needed to vent

oh yeah she also has like 5 aol accounts, she does this soldiers angels thing too and because a few of the males shes adopted have hit on her, even after she was married to me and they knew that, she said she wont adopt males anymore, yet the first person she adopts is a guy and she sees no problem with that.

Hi IH

Welcome to MB, sorry you have to be here.
Please start your own thread in general question 2, it will be helpful for the others to help you.

what is POS?

piece of....
excrement

It is amazing all the incriminating stuff that people put on myspace and fB when it comes to an A. Dumb.

For better proof take a snapshot of the page so the court cannot say you tampered with what you copied. go to page you want to copy hit "print screen" go to word and paste it in so you have 2 types of documentation.

H's OW does not have Myspace which is shocking since she is so into herself. I might start one for her called "Adventures of the plastic pinanta"

When I first found it, it was public now she has it private but has posted her pregnancy (when me and him were still legally married).

When it was public, a complete timeline of the affair..it started much sooner than i thought. And, pictures--lots of pictures of their behavior..wow.. and her friends pages with even more pictures. It just hurts him really because others have seen these pictures-it makes him look very very very bad. And it scared me as the mother of his kids to see his behavior in these pictures, but I consider myself lucky and thank god I did find them, for the kids sake.