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ISO Mel's groping thread... #2236807 03/29/09 07:13 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 4,652 J jayne241 OP Member
OP jayne241 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 4,652	Hey, The search feature is still totally and completely broken and also you can't even click on someone's name to get a list of their posts. But you can get a list of your own posts. Can Mel or someone who posted to her thread about how to handle a groping DH, please bump it or provide a link to it, for kewwy on EN? Thanks! me - 47 H - 39 married 2001 DS 8a DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)

Re: ISO Mel's groping thread... jayne241 #2236818 03/29/09 07:30 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,698 New Zealand L lildoggie Member
lildoggie Member L Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,698 New Zealand	I found the post I think you mean Originally Posted by Melody lane Originally Posted by DNU1 We spend majority of our non-working time together. Both of us are very touchy-feely. I love the way she dresses and frequently compliment her on being the hot-mom, the MILF, grab her behind a lot. Ok, I consider that STALKING and it is a huge turn off to me. I HATE BEING GROPED. I hate being groped so much that I was becoming sexually averse to my H because I began to associate every touch with the bad feelings I got from groping. That kind of behavior might please you, but it may not please HER. She may just be TOLERATING THAT and not saying anything. (big no-no to her!) This is why it is important to find out FOR SURE what she likes and meet her needs in the way SHE WANTS, not in the way you want. Additionally, you would want to take the lovebusters questionaires to flush out lovebusters. In addition to this, it is important for you both to be honest about behavior that annoys you. That gives you both a chance to stop that behavior. Complaints are good for a marriage! _________________________ ME: BS DH: WS Happily recovered for 8 years! Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday

Re: ISO Mel's groping thread... lildoggie #2236822 03/29/09 07:32 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	Thanks lildoggie! That post explains my feelings better than the thread did. I am going to add that post to the thread. "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: ISO Mel's groping thread... MelodyLane #2236913 03/29/09 11:20 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,698 New Zealand L lildoggie Member
lildoggie Member L Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,698 New Zealand	Please anyone with EA experience, go to kewwy (KEZ) thread on the EN board, just told me about an 'old flame' thanx Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday

Re: ISO Mel's groping thread... lildoggie #2236960 03/30/09 01:27 AM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 4,652 J jayne241 OP Member
OP jayne241 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 4,652	Yes that's it! Thanks for putting it in the other thread also, Mel. Wasn't there also a post where you describe how you explained it to your H, that it was causing the opposite affect that he prolly wanted, so it's in his best interests to not do that? Anyway, as it turns out that doesn't seem to be the main issue anyway. Bumpity-bump, hoping folks will visit the thread lil started on EN... it's for kewwy but lil started it. Am I the only one awake in North America? Just sittin here waiting for another blizzard... ho hum... waves to all y'all on the upside-down part of the world. me - 47 H - 39 married 2001 DS 8a DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)

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