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#2237167 03/30/09 12:23 PM
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Ladies and Gents, BS everywhere--

Hey, I found this on a "dudes" website...

If your spouse is into internet transactions at all, this site is the bloodhound of tracking past info: Spokeo.com

So many men were complaining about being busted because of this site, I just HAD to check it out.

Hope it helps.


Me; W 46
Him; H 46

2 girls
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DD16
Dated/Married total 28 years.
..I am learning and working on myself.
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Yikes! Can they find us on MB too???


BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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I will check it out. Always looking for useful sites.


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Here's more info:

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From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Spokeo
Type Private
Founded Saratoga, California (2006)
Headquarters Mountain View, California

Key people Harrison Tang, Ray Chen, Eric Liang, Mike Daly

Industry Computer software
Products Spokeo People Search
Website Spokeo People Search

Spokeo is a social-network-based people search service. Unlike traditional people search services that search for one person at a time, Spokeo searches a group of people, usually those that contained within a user's webmail address book. Spokeo looks for social network accounts for each person by performing deep Web searches across over 40 such networks,[1][2] including Bebo, Blogger, DailyMotion, DeviantArt, Digg, Facebook, Flickr, Fotolog, Friendster, HI5, ImageStation, Imeem, Last.fm, LiveJournal, MySpace, Netlog, Photobucket, Vox, Webshots, Windows Live Spaces, Wretch, Xanga, Yahoo Video, and YouTube.[3]

Spokeo was founded in 2006 by Stanford University graduates. It is implemented in Ruby on Rails.[4]

Spokeo is not a social network, and it does not support any social network features. It syndicates only publicly available information,[5] although the information that it aggregates may not be commonly known to be public.[6]


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Thanks for the tip. I just checked it out and didn't find any new information! Yay! I really hate finding out new dirt but had to check anyway.


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I'm always wary of these sites, so on MB users behalf I checked it out on Google. This link is to a very disgruntled user.


http://blog.evanweaver.com/articles/2008/03/06/spokeo-spam/


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