Pio:
You posted this on MGolfers thread:
mgolfer,
There is a school of thought that says waywards all think they are so brilliant and we BS's are so stupid that they will never get caught. This careless attitude is, more often than not, their undoing.
On the other hand, my mother used to have a cat. It was the most unaffectionate cat I had ever seen. We could go for days without seeing that cat but then the cat would walk into the living room right in front of where we were sitting and calmly yet quite deliberately proceed to pee on the carpet. The cat did this repeatedly. Eventually out of frustration, we took the cat to the vet only to be told the cat had a UTI. When we got back from the vet, the cat stopped peeing on the carpet. A few weeks would go by and then the cat, out of the blue, would pee on the carpet again. Sure enough, another UTI. This was the cat's way of communicating.
My point is that maybe, if even only in her subconscious, your WW was hoping to get caught.
You think that Mrs MG wanted to get caught? No, I don't think so. I think that she was a serial cheater, but I don't think she "wanted" to get caught. She knew that MGolfer was watching. She could have done MUCH outside of the home and MG would have had a very difficult time catching that. Reviewing all the circumstances of MG's marriage, Mrs MG always had time, opportunity and the ability to have "hook-up's" as she desired.
I mean Rah-Rah boy was taking cell phone pictures of her. She was having men over to the house, probably on a regular basis. No, she was only CAUGHT with Rah-Rah boy. And she has been caught again.
She LEARNED what she had to do to placate MG after the Rah-Rah boy incident. I do not think that those methods are going to work again.
Theres a freight train coming at Mrs MG, and she's never going to know what hit her. And she deserves every bit of it.
LG