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I wasn't going to post again because of some things that were said last night, but I need my MB friends and any prayer warriors right now.
My DH had some tests run on Monday. The doctor's office just called and the doctor wants to meet with both of us this afternoon.
I'm so afraid... please pray for me and DH.
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Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Praying headed your way already.  It does always sound ominus when the doctor wants to speak to BOTH of you.
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God be with you in a very concrete way today. Love to you and your husband.
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PM, My prayers are with you and your beloved H. This will be a stronger testament to your M and the strength you will draw from each other. God bless.
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
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Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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Prayers for you and DH, PM. May you be in Gods hands today. 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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You know our prayers and love are with you both. *hugs* you know you can email/call me day or night.
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(((PM)))
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Sending encouraging thoughts and prayers your way, Miss Meggy. Fox
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((((PM))))
Do whatever you can to get your hands on Lou Tice's book "Smart Talk" TODAY - before you meet with this doctor.
No matter what you face, you cannot make it better from a place of fear. You have to see your husband from a place of faith and I know you have it in you!
Lou's book is one of the very best - and if you can read the first two chapters before you meet with this doctor, you'll know if this doctor is going to help your husband or get in the way of healing.
Please do it - whatever it takes - library, bookstore, it's gotta be around.
You and your DH are in my prayers!
(p.s. I don't normally log in at work, but your situation deserves all the support we can give!)
Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1 The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"? The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!" If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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PM - We're all there with you.
We'll all be here if you need us.
And I can think of no better prayer warriors than the people here.
- Kimmy
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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PM,
Prayers for you and H. I am glad you decided to post today. I am a strong believer in the power of prayer, especially when the prayer is uttered by many believers.
AM
BW - 70
WH - 65
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
H broke contact 11/1/09
Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.
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Both you and your husband will be in our prayers
AW & Aussie
Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.
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Prayers going up from California for you and hubby.
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Praying for you and yours, PM.
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Prayers going up for you and DH, PM.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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PM, You have been there for me, so now I would be honored to offer up prayers for you and your DH. Yes, there is POWER in your prayer warriors!
Me 48 XWAW 42 M 18Y
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PM,
Prayers your way and may God's grace bless you both.
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Married 02/1983 yrs, Sons - 27, 26, 20
1st PA - 1985, 1st known EA - 1992/1993
2nd PA - 06/02 to 11/04
1st D-day - 09/03, D-day 2 - 10/04 D-day 3 05/08
NC e-mail - 11/04- it wasn't real
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PM and Hubby Every Shabbat we say this prayer publically because as one of my rabbis used to say, we don't understand the power of prayer and how it works, we just know it works. Mi she-bei-rach a-vo-tei-nu. M'kor ha-bra-cha I'i-mo-tei-nu. May the source of strength who blessed the ones before us Help us find the courage to make our lives a blessing And let us say, Amen. Mi she-bei-rach I-mo-tei-nu. M'kor ha-bra-cha l'a-vo-tei-nu. Bless those in need of healing with r'fu-a sh'lei-ma; The renewal of body, the renewal of spirit; And let us say, Amen. PM, may the strength of your faith in G-d carry you through this fearful time and KNOW that you can walk with G-d and face anything with his protection and love. We will be there in spirit. {{{{{{{{{{{{PM}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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