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PM,
Please be positive - you are not going to lose your DH again! Whatever the diagnosis is, you will fight just like you did before. We will be right here with our prayers and fighting with you.
Stay positive!
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Dear Meg ... I am praying for you both.
Don't jump to conclusions Meg ... sometimes Drs want someone besides the patient in the room in order to make smarter decisions. Especially when the treatments available require lots of choices, and choices that are difficult to explain.
God grant grant Meg & Mister Serenity & Wisdom & Courage
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PM,
I just saw this. I will be thinking of you both all day and beyond.
Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain’t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!
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So worried, still praying...............
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Oh my dear faithful friend,
Prayers are going up this very minute.....be strong and couragous and know that God is with you. I am so sorry for this bout of news.....
I love you honey....
not2fun
ps...Queenie, that prayer was BEAUTIFUL....
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This sent chills up my spine, I can't imagine how you felt when you got the request that both of you go.
I'm glad you felt you could call on us.
Thinking of you both.
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ISAIAH 43:1-3
Fear not for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; you are mine.
You both are a Son and a Daughter of the King's.
I'm Praying that He grants you both a peace that is beyond understanding.
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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Prayers going up for you and H princess!
Love in Christ,
Miss M
me: FBS
H: FWS
Fully recovered
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PM, sending prayers your way.
BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011
Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
--------Eleanor Roosevelt
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Thank you all sooooo much for your prayers. I am overwhelmed.
We just got back from the doc and the news isn't good. He has colon cancer. The doctor (and we) are optimistic. He has to have more blood work and a CT scan and then they're going to do surgery in about two weeks. Hopefully that will be the end of it.
So I guess the prayer now needs to be that it is contained in the one area where they found it.
I can't stick around right now, but I just wanted to update everyone.
If we survived all the stuff we have already, we WILL beat this too and have an even GREATER testimony.
(My tears are dried and I plan on being hopeful from here on.)
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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I am so sorry, PM. You sound very strong and positive. I will continue to keep you and the mister in my prayers.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
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For very bad news, that sounds quite manageable.
It sounds like they caught it early and it's something that can be dealt with. Thanks for letting us know, and do spend all the time you need to with DH. We'll see you when we see you, and you know we're all rooting for you and your H.
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Prayers going out to you. Positive attitude is so important, even the studies prove it. (((hugs)))
BS, 28 WH, 36 11/08-? EA(s?), no PA's, lied (net&women) MLC end 5/09? Enter R  M 2000 Child, 5.5 yrs
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Hubby is in good spirits and very positive. In his words, my God is bigger than this. He said he's going to surround himself with positive people and just take it one step at a time. We've talked to several people now who know somebody that knows somebody that has been through this. His chances are very good. My mom says, "you know honey, it seems like this was all a plan, since he hasn't been to the doc in several years, all the sudden you guys are able to afford insurance for him (he's always been self-employed), you push him to go get a check up, the doc finds it now rather than when it's too late." I agree. There's a reason for this and I'm not going to waste energy worrying when we really don't have any answers yet. It just really freaked me out when the doctor called this AM. Then again, I'm strong now... today... we'll see what happens tomorrow. Thanks again my wonderful MB friends. You guys rawk!
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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PM, Prayers going up for you both... Be not dismayed whate'er betide,
God will take care of you;
beneath his wings of love abide,
God will take care of you.
God will take care of you,
through every day, o'er all the way;
he will take care of you,
God will take care of you.
No matter what may be the test,
God will take care of you;
lean, weary one, upon his breast,
God will take care of you.
God will take care of you,
through every day, o'er all the way;
he will take care of you,
God will take care of you.
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Praying that you both maintain the strength you are showing today as continue down this new path in your lives.
Brokenhusband
Married 12 years
Me 35
DW 33
DD 12
DD 10
DS 8
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You and your husband are in my thoughts PM.
Me 35
W 31
D12
D9
Exposure day 12/29/08 (Ws 32nd bday)
I wanted to fix marriage June 1st
A found out June 11th
W came home August 18th till the end
BS papers from her Oct 2nd
Real papers from me Oct 17th
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I'm on the prayer line too and know that my thoughts are with you.
As a cancer survivor, and the daughter of a colon cancer survivor (19 years now) I would recommend that you contact the American Cancer Society. Just head to their website.
They have the most current information, a network of volunteers/survivors who can give you support in ways that you might not even think about.
johnstwin-
"I may not know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future." -Martin Luther
Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!
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